Comments on: How To Build Solid Relationships (With Enormously Successful People)

By: Peanuts & Thread

Peanuts & Thread — Thu, 07 Apr 2016 01:15:33 +0000

Every so often, when we don’t have mentors around us who can point us to the right direction, we open our media in hopes to find some guidance. Today your post gave me a boost. I see what I have done in the past when the people around me guided me in the right direction and all of a sudden everything seemed to stop. I realized what natural trait I had put a halt on and need to pick up again. The more sincere you are in giving first, the greater it will show. And not everyone will respond, but that’s why we adopt it as a trait, not as a way to seeking to receive.

By: Peter Gruben

Peter Gruben — Mon, 21 Mar 2016 11:26:58 +0000

Thank you, I like your article and agree that relationships are about caring for others, understanding their needs (physical or emotional). In general I would like to see more people focusing on building relationships with their families and friends.

By: Marc Chernoff

Marc Chernoff — Mon, 21 Mar 2016 02:47:59 +0000

Thank you for the heartfelt comments, everyone. Angel and I just read through your thoughts together, and we’re inspired to know that you’ve found value in this short post. 🙂

By: Marc Chernoff

Marc Chernoff — Mon, 21 Mar 2016 02:45:26 +0000

In reply to David Rapp. Glad this post helped in some small way, David. We're sending you good vibes as you enter this transitional (and growing) period in your career.

By: Holly

Holly — Mon, 21 Mar 2016 02:10:54 +0000

Do you have any advice for someone starting out but not twenty something? Being older it’s expected that one be successful already. So in the situation where there’s an age factor, not a lot of office skills, and cannot afford to work for free, starting over from scratch, what would you advise and recommend?

By: DOUGLAS

DOUGLAS — Sat, 19 Mar 2016 07:43:45 +0000

I have been looking for a post like this one. When you find yourself alone in a new country to start over, needless to say how hard is it.

Trying to find and build a team with new unknown people who are sharing the same vision with you, is not easy. However patience and being aware of what you are really looking for, can be helpful.

I check your blog everyday to keep myself motivated, create and chasing opportunities.

Thank you for all your sharing!

By: Nadege

Nadege — Fri, 18 Mar 2016 09:39:17 +0000

In reply to Veronica. Oh really!! I will appreciate if you could devote your time to help me stay focused through various successful paths madam. I've been on and off the right path of my career that I "badly"need a coach. Thanks in advance

By: ALLY

ALLY — Fri, 18 Mar 2016 05:20:28 +0000

This post is awesome, and the lesson here is to be careful with the type of people we spend most of our time with.

Thank you Marc and Angel for sharing good posts with us, they are real motivating and eye opening as well.

By: Marc Chernoff

Marc Chernoff — Fri, 18 Mar 2016 03:40:15 +0000

In reply to Mike Beck. Thank you, Mike. You are too kind. It was a pleasure meeting you, and we absolutely loved your photographs of the event. :)

By: Celine

Celine — Fri, 18 Mar 2016 03:37:35 +0000

In reply to JimSmithOnline. "Just going out and asking for stuff is like harvesting… but if you’ve not planted, there’s nothing to harvest." Thanks JimSmithOnline for the beautiful and powerful image used to explain this important topic! And thanks, Angel and Marc, for helping us become a better version of ourselves and achieve our personal and professional goals with your transformational posts! And thanks to you all, dearest readers, for your wonderful and powerful comments! My mum always told us not to be a bag that only receives and never gives something back. She is right. Give and you will receive even without asking. This applies to our whole life : personal and professional life.

By: Marc Chernoff

Marc Chernoff — Fri, 18 Mar 2016 03:35:33 +0000

In reply to Dr. Steven Kelsy. Well said, Dr. Kelsy! And thank you for sharing our work.

By: Marc Chernoff

Marc Chernoff — Fri, 18 Mar 2016 03:34:01 +0000

In reply to Beth. I completely agree, Beth. This same strategy is relevant to nurturing all kinds of relationships. And thank you for supporting our work. I hope you and your sister find value in our book. :)

By: JimSmithOnline

JimSmithOnline — Thu, 17 Mar 2016 18:07:00 +0000

Thanks, Marc and Angel, for a great reminder about the power of generosity. I have used this “strategy” on and off over the years, not always appreciating what I was doing. I realized a few years ago that being generous (with time, ideas, support, etc) is like planting seeds, not knowing what will grow. Just going out and asking for stuff is like harvesting… but if you’ve not planted, there’s nothing to harvest.

Reading this post and the wonderful comments from others makes me want to get on the phone and set up a few more meetings next month to follow thru on some offers I’ve made. Being generous takes time, yet it is so powerful for building a community, a tribe, and a business!

By: Judy

Judy — Thu, 17 Mar 2016 15:08:49 +0000

I am so grateful for your daily posts. You never know where a connection to a life changing experience will come from. Always keep the door open and watch magic happen. Wishing you an incredible day.
Thank you both.

By: Nora

Nora — Thu, 17 Mar 2016 14:21:26 +0000

So many things in that post…..taking action, taking a risk, wanting to be involved, working towards something one step at a time, what is there to loose? Reminds me of this: in order to keep it; give it away.

By: Sadie Chan

Sadie Chan — Thu, 17 Mar 2016 14:15:36 +0000

I would like to thank you for continuing sending me articles in my email that I eagerly read each time.

I know I should have purchased your book and attended some live training by now, but I just couldn’t find time. I am with two other programs and membership courses and working on my websites. Maybe soon though.

Thanks again for making a difference to people’s lives.

By: Veronica

Veronica — Thu, 17 Mar 2016 13:58:08 +0000

Great article! Great advice. I’m a new entrepreneur and coach, and if there’s anything I can do for you, let me know!!!

By: Stan

Stan — Thu, 17 Mar 2016 13:55:20 +0000

I naturally ask what I can do to help when there is a need. It doesn’t have to be anything big, just a genuine desire to help. I didn’t always have money to give, but I could always give my time or services, and I’ve never expected anything from them. I’ve found that many times the natural response from others is to return the kindness, and I do not deny them the opportunity, as it seems to give them pleasure, the same as I feel when I do for others.
You get to know the true character of people during these times. Sometimes I am surprised to find who the real quality people are in life. Many times “success” is only equated with material possessions, but I discovered there are truly successful people at all economic levels. Those who are the most content are the truly successful, and they are the ones I choose to be around.

By: Deb

Deb — Thu, 17 Mar 2016 13:49:53 +0000

Yesterday a woman on our neighborhood Internet site wrote that she had some free startups for cardboard palms from her yard. I love this well mannered, carefree plant that can cost $40 at a nursery. As I reached for my gloves to head over there, I saw a second new pair in the package and brought them to her. She was genuinely surprised and thanked me back. That made two smiles instead of one.

By: Priya Florence Shah

Priya Florence Shah — Thu, 17 Mar 2016 13:35:34 +0000

I love this. It’s a very helpful post for someone like me, looking for mentorship and guidance in my business. Thanks for sharing.